We got there at last.

Dominique and Dan had originally booked their wedding for June, and then of course because of COVID19 their date was changed to a Sunday in October. As so many clients were rearranging their weddings I was actually booked for their date in October, however they were more than happy to have Kabz photograph their big day.

Then a few weeks ago Dominique called me to say that they wanted to have a 30 people ceremony in August, as per the new guidelines, and then have a party in October.

Now I love a small wedding, and a small Jewish wedding under COVID guidelines got me really excited.

As a photographer I am always looking for unique moments. Something to make your wedding photographs different from your friends. Now a lot of that is achievable just by the way I approach each wedding. To me every wedding is unique, just like everyone is unique. I don’t photograph a wedding as a template, like some, instead I let the wedding flow and let these moments happen naturally.

So, a wedding under strict COVID19 guidelines, with face masks, sanitisers, 2 metre distancing etc , was just the wedding to get me out of lockdown. The photo opportunities would be endless, the images would be unique, iconic and certainly when, in 20 years times, we look back at them, will always be 2020.

I arrived at Dominique's parents house for bride prep and things were clearly different. I like to get close, I like to show my clients personality and the 2 metre distancing was obviously going to change that.

From the house we went to the synagogue, a quick temperature check before entering ( my temperature was fine BTW ), face mask donned and into the synagogue we went.

OH MY GOD IT WAS HOT. London was 32 degrees and humid, I had sweat dripping down my forehead and humid hot breath going up, and it all met around my eyes. Uncomfortable to say the least, claustrophobic, but essential. The rabbi went a step further and wore plastic gloves and even sanitised his hands with the gloves on…Figure that one out.

The ceremony was different, plenty of great opportunities for photographs as well as some you wouldn’t expect to see at a wedding.

From the synagogue we all went to The Corinthia Hotel where all 30 people, including me dined in the Kerridge Bar and Grill, at separate tables and socially distanced and bubbled… The Corinthia staff were fabulous. Of course they realise that this is not what the couple had planned, but they went out of their way to make it as special as possible.

Is this the way weddings will look in the future? It’s certainly not to be sneezed at. Having 30 of your nearest and dearest at your wedding ceremony must be so rewarding. I wont speak for Dominique, but she certainly seemed less stressed than a lot of brides that have the large weddings. Most brides are petrified of walking down the aisle with everyone looking at them, but when its your nearest and dearest it must be so much easier.

From my point of view I am able to get more images of those that are closest to the couple and the images become much more personal. I thoroughly enjoyed and thrived on the the whole experience. I have images that I love, that are unique, and iconic of the times we currently live in.

My advice to any bride would be to have your ceremony now, and then have a party later when the guidelines allow.